What to wear to a beach wedding as a guest: shoes, fabric, sand

Beach weddings look relaxed, but guests still need a plan. Sand, wind and sun decide what works. The dress code decides how formal.

This guide covers what to wear to a beach wedding as a guest. Check the invitation and the forecast, and ask the couple if the dress code is unclear. Our wedding dress codes explained guide covers the terms.

The decision rule

Light fabric, flat feet, one layer for the evening.

A "beach formal" invitation means smart but light. A "casual beach" invitation means a sundress or a linen shirt. If it just says "beach", dress one step above what you would wear on the sand.

What goes on your body

• Dress or shirt. Linen, cotton or light viscose in light colours. Avoid heavy dark fabric in sun.
• Skirt length. Midi or longer holds up better in wind. Short skirts need shorts or a slip underneath.
• Shoes. Flat sandals, wedges with a wide base or barefoot. Stilettos sink.
• Sun cover. A wide hat, sunglasses and sunscreen.

Ruling: if the shoe has a thin heel, it will not survive the sand.

What to avoid

• White, ivory or cream. Leave those for the couple.
• Very tight fabrics. Sand and sweat are unforgiving.
• Strong prints that look like holiday wear unless the code says casual.

The evening plan

Evenings by the sea get cool. Carry a light wrap or a linen jacket. If the reception moves indoors, a change of shoes helps.

If it goes wrong

• Wind. Pin or weight light hems with a small clip.
• Sand in your shoes. Carry a small plastic bag for them.
• Sun and heat. Take a bottle of water and find shade between the ceremony and photos.
• Rain. A small umbrella in the bag.

If the wedding is abroad, the guide to what to wear to a destination wedding abroad covers packing. The beach holiday packing list helps for the rest of the trip.